I just finished the book How We Love: Discover Your Love Style, Enhance Your Marriage, by Milan & Kay Yerkovich. This book has been probably one of the best marriage books I have read in recent years.
The book delves into how our childhoods create patterns of relating that often unconsciously affect how we relate as adults in our marriage. Major problems often arise when different ways of relating in the marriage conflict with one another. The book talks about how our childhood creates these patterns of relating as well as what we can do now to create healthy patterns.
There’s even a workbook at the end that I am looking forward to going through with my husband.
I really recommend this book to every married couple or everyone thinking about getting married!